Yes.

Everyone thinks I am mean and judgmental.
I know I have really strong beliefs and that
I am not afraid to vocalize them and have no
fear of being considered controversial. But
I am not mean. I am not judgmental in a negative
way. I strive to be as positive, helpful, and
above all respectful as possible and it hurts
that people are so blind to that.

Yes, I will tell it like it is. Yes, I will criticize
or give advice
or tell you off
if I disagree with what you are doing
if it is offensive
if it is negative
but I do not hate you nor do I want to cause you pain.